Executive Coaching has come of age and is now viewed as an effective way of developing leaders. Smart companies are making executive coaching a core element of leadership development; whether that is when grooming a CEO successor or helping managers transition to leaders.
It is therefore not ânewsâ that a recent survey reports 86 percent of US companies hired Executive Coaches to sharpen the skills of individuals who have been identified as future organizational leaders. The numbers are similar in Europe whilst the uptake of executive coaching in Singapore and Asia has been slower but is catching up.
The demand for good Executive Coaches has been driven by organizations' demands for immediate results. Executive Coaching provides feedback and guidance in real time, and lasting transformations can be observed after 3 to 6 months.
As individuals advance to the executive level, developmental feedback becomes increasingly important. Many executives plateau in critical interpersonal and ...
What happens when your motivation goes missing?
In this post, Iâm going to share with you, how to find your motivation and how to get going -even when you donât feel like it. Everyone has things they should do or things they must do, but donât feel like doing. But you also have things you like to do and things you look forward to doing. So whatâs the difference? Whatâs the secret?
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Itâs not unusual to struggle with motivation, youâre not alone. Let me share something with you, as well as being a Self-leadership coach, Iâm also engaged as a motivational speaker. I have spoken to audiences as large as 12,000 and inspired them to take action. But, Iâve also had those days when I struggle just to get out of bed, days when taking a shower was a major achievement. Just this week the thought of going to the gym, something I usually like doing, seemed like it would be a Herculean task. But I went and I had a great workout anyway â âHow?â You m...
 â âIâm friends with the monster thatâs under my bed. Get along with the voices inside of my headâ
Great lyrics from Rihanna and Eminem. Great because, they speak to an experience that we can all relate to. The experience of our fears manifesting as voice inside our head.
The voice that can say; âYouâre not smart enoughâ, âNot tall enoughâ, âNot pretty enoughâ
A voice that tells you to âStay safe, Stay Quiet, and âStay invisibleâ
The voice inside your head can be your greatest friend or your greatest enemy. This voice is going to cheer you on to success or lock you in a prison of your own making.
In this post Iâm going to share with you three Self-leadership strategies, to ensure that you get along with the voices inside of your head and make friends with the monsters that are under your bed!
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I have known the acid taste of self-doubt; the stomach-churning of self-criticism and experienced paralysis from the fear that I will be judged.
Today Iâm ...
Imagine a university lecture theater. Tiered seats in a semi-circle, and in those seats, powerful women. Women leaders from international governments; Singapore, South Africa, India, to name a few. Senior female leaders from multi-national organizations. All of these women looking towards a central focal point. I step into that focal point and endure their gaze. I ask this question, âWhat words is your mind giving you to describe me?â
We all judge, we cannot judge, and my intent in asking that question on the third day of a Women in Leadership program was to bring to awareness that gender bias goes both ways.
âAssertive, Arrogant and Aggressiveâ â were how some of these women perceived me, and that was before I have even started my lecture (Itâs not my fault I look like a night-club bouncer!).
âConfident, Professional and a Leaderâ were the kinder descriptions. But the point had been made. We all judge, but worse than judging others is how we judge ourselves. This was the theme of m...
What sets successful people apart, is not that they donât have setbacks, or failures but how they handle their emotions during these tough times.
In this post, Iâm going to share with you psychologically sound, Self-leadership strategies to develop your resilience & bounce back faster.
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If you are reading this, itâs likely that you have experienced disappointment or heartache at some point in your life. Issues like; injury, illness, losing a job, financial problems, failed business, and the end of a relationship are lifeâs way of knocking us on our âarseâ and testing what we are made of.
Personally, I have been through a business disruption that took me from owning houses, and cars and living the life to being completely broke, with zero assets, living day-by-day in a backpackers hostel. After rebuilding my life and starting another business, I was again disrupted by a divorce that I didnât want.
As an Executive Coach, and after talking to and interv...